Saturday, 16 May 2026
From Chaos to Connection: Managing Challenging Behaviors with Love
Saturday, 16 May, 10:00 – 12:00
This practical, interactive workshop is designed for current children’s ministry volunteers, parents, and anyone interested in working with or supporting groups of children. Whether you are already serving or exploring involvement, this session will equip you with tools to lead with confidence, understanding, and care.
During the workshop, we will explore how children communicate through their behavior and what may be behind challenging moments. You will learn how to create a structured, engaging environment for a group of children, and how to respond effectively when difficulties arise.
We will also introduce the topic of neurodiversity: what it is, different neurotypes, and how to support children with diverse needs so they can stay engaged and build meaningful connections with others.
Together, we will:
- Understand the causes and meaning behind children’s behavior
- Learn practical strategies for managing groups and maintaining structure
- Explore ways to respond to challenging situations with confidence and care
- Gain insight into neurodiversity and inclusive support approaches
- Practice real-life scenarios through role play
- Receive practical tips and insights from experienced specialists
- Have space for questions, discussion, and shared learning
Facilitators:
Esme Tolsma is a dedicated teacher assistant at a school for children with special needs, with a strong background in social work. With hands-on experience working closely with children who require additional care, she will share practical, engaging tips and insights on how to connect with and support children in a group setting who need a little extra attention.
Jen Tunguz, M.S. Ed., has over 20 years of experience working with children and families living with disabilities and neurodivergence. She has served as a teacher, a certified Behavior Intervention Case Manager, and a founding member of Joni & Friends International Family Retreats in Serbia. Currently, she supports students as a Learning Support Teacher at the International School Haarlem.
Rianne Vroegindeweij is a behavioral psychologist with a Master’s degree in behavioral psychology and a background in pedagogy. She has worked as a teacher and now applies her expertise at COA, where she coaches and trains social workers and supports unaccompanied minors with behavioral challenges.
Our desire is to create a space where every child feels welcome and valued, and every adult feels equipped and supported.
A coffee break with refreshments and a lunch afterward.